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Fertilizers for Motivation

Never let people define who you are. Or tell you what you should be doing or your goals in life. You are you. You create your own dreams and chase them because dreams can be a reality. 

 

Comparing is a disease of the mind. Don't compare yourself to anyone. Just carry on at your own pace

You don't need attention and compliments to feel good about yourself. Being confident can make you happier. Happiness starts with you. 

Only focus on your goals. Don't be distracted by others. The only way to succeed is to focus on yourself and what is best for you.

Be kind. Be nice. Think good of others.

It makes a difference,

a good one.

Stop and Start the 3 C's

  • Mar 11, 2019
  • 2 min read

" Happiness comes from contentment"


Happy International Women's Day to all beautiful and strong ladies out there who always tries their very best to be who they are and to always see the positive side of life! I remember when this photo was taken. On this day last year, I was still in the process of self-love, growing up to handle my emotions better and a phase of acceptance. This day was when I grew out of my toxic overthinking, my dark past and whatever negative thought I had. I learned to empower my own life and learn how to control and take over my emotions and what I feel. Over time, the dark side faded away. I learnt to love myself and never let anyone else be the source of happiness. No one was ever to be blamed for my own emotions. I choose what I wish to feel.

I was reading up all the post and watching videos about Women's Day last week and I learnt 6 things - the 3 Cs we should STOP and the 3 Cs we should START.

We NEED to stop comparing ourselves with one another - it can get toxic and it makes you overthink and make you feel all the negative emotions like insecurity and not being blessed for what you have. We NEED AND REALLY NEED to stop competition. Who gets a degree and graduate first, who gets a family first and so on... The only competition you have is with your old self. Am I getting better? What am I achieving for the past 1 year? Compete with your own self!! We NEED TO STOP complaining. Sighing. Being doubtful about everything. Why am I not like this and that? STOP, it's really toxic to our life overall.


What can we do? BE CONFIDENT! Self-love is so important. Yes, even though other girls have "better" things, I am great enough for the world and I have something unique that doesn't need to be flaunt or shown.


Start CARING for everyone and especially another women who you know or you don't! Empower and support each other! Help one another so we can grow into something bigger! Start COLLABORATIONS and everything is not about individuality (even though I admit that working solo is so so much better and easier!)


Lastly, start being contented with EVERY SINGLE THING that happened in your life. Only then, you will feel much more happier and more accepting of what is happening in your life!


I pray that all of us uphold these Cs and always always be blessed with everything in life. Alhamdulillah. ♥


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