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Fertilizers for Motivation

Never let people define who you are. Or tell you what you should be doing or your goals in life. You are you. You create your own dreams and chase them because dreams can be a reality. 

 

Comparing is a disease of the mind. Don't compare yourself to anyone. Just carry on at your own pace

You don't need attention and compliments to feel good about yourself. Being confident can make you happier. Happiness starts with you. 

Only focus on your goals. Don't be distracted by others. The only way to succeed is to focus on yourself and what is best for you.

Be kind. Be nice. Think good of others.

It makes a difference,

a good one.

A peaceful heart

  • Sep 14, 2018
  • 3 min read

" A peaceful heart is a powerful heart"

I was scrolling down my twitter, I saw this tweet saying "the biggest gift from Allah is a peaceful heart" and I cannot explain how thankful that after whatever I have been through from the start of the year till now, I still found peace in my heart. What is this PEACE to me? 1) Acceptance

Accepting whatever that has happened to myself or people around me. This was elaborated in my past post which is clear that after a certain months later, I choose to not cry or be emo over matters. I choose to accept it with faith and believe whatever happens is for a reason. Though it was difficult for the past (about) five months. Also, I learn that whatever opportunities that I did not receive was not written for me and I have to accept it as I know 1) there will always be a reason why 2) better things are coming my way, in shaa Allah. Don't dwell over it, and just continue working hard. 2) Leaving negativity The negativity that comes from all around including my own inner demons. I learn how to not entertain those bad thoughts whenever it pops up. Also, all the negativity other people try to put on you for whatever intentions they have - to make themselves feel better or to just pull you down - that's between them and Him. But I'm definitely sure that I don't really care much anymore. HAHA


Sometimes you just have to be selfish if it involves negativity. If you need to distance yourself from people, to get your inner peace or be closer to Him, just do it. 3) Moving on To move on is basically to not talk about it over and over again and I must say I have improved a lot over these months. Many things have changed including friendships and relationships with people. I feel that it isn't worth to keep talking and complaining about the past like wondering why 'this or that' happens and so on. Like I mention, things happen for a reason and sometimes we never know why until when He wants us to realise why it actually happens. 4) Keep yourself busy by focusing on the present and positivity

This is just very simple. Just do things that make you happy and whatever that brings you closer to Him and positivity. Rumi quoted, "If the light is in your heart, you will find your way home." So just allow and make space for the light to enter your heart by throwing away all the unnecessary negativity. In shaa Allah, you will find peace and it will guide you wherever you deserve to be.


5) Patience I have always believed in being patient. I've been patient for the past 21 years. I used to wonder why my life is so difficult from the day I was in kindergarten. Haha no kidding! After awhile I realise that hardships are meant to be in your life to make you a better person. Smile when it hits you because you are being LOVED by Him. Nothing feels better than having to go through hardships but at the end of the day, feel blessed and satisfied at where you are standing now.

I pray that everyone will eventually find that peace in the heart. I pray that Allah s.w.t will protect all of our hearts from negative feelings like envy and hatred. ♥

thepinkrosette

 
 
 

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