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Fertilizers for Motivation

Never let people define who you are. Or tell you what you should be doing or your goals in life. You are you. You create your own dreams and chase them because dreams can be a reality. 

 

Comparing is a disease of the mind. Don't compare yourself to anyone. Just carry on at your own pace

You don't need attention and compliments to feel good about yourself. Being confident can make you happier. Happiness starts with you. 

Only focus on your goals. Don't be distracted by others. The only way to succeed is to focus on yourself and what is best for you.

Be kind. Be nice. Think good of others.

It makes a difference,

a good one.

Acceptance

  • Sep 3, 2018
  • 2 min read

" Happiness can exist only in acceptance"

I really got to start keeping myself on track and posting on time, on Fridays, instead of the following weekday. You know how I loved the concept of writing a blog and being able to just reflect on life. One day I can just open all the blog post back and re-read everything over again. Or, if one day I am no longer living and breathing, this blog could be a source of motivation for people who are having trouble coping with life itself.


With time passing, I feel the need to reflect on something. After everything that happens, I truly believe that there is a reason behind it. And what is more important is that Allah s.w.t. made things happen the way it is because it was for a good reason. As much as I can accept truth and facts, not everyone actually does. That is what I am truly sad about.


Nowadays, people tend to not accept the truth because it's not what they wanna hear or what they expect. And that unrealistic expectations that they have in their head is what really drifts us away from reality and it makes it difficult for them to accept qada and qadar that Allah has written for all of us.


However, the main point I want to emphasize is: not only accept whatever is written for our own self but accept whatever that is written for others too.

For example, when something bad that happens to someone, why keep harping on it when you are not even the one going through it as if it was not supposed to happen to them? Or when something good happens to someone, why keep harping on how it does not benefit you at all? ACCEPT THE REALITY. One of the reasons why people start to be envious and full of hatred of others is that they can't accept reality as it is. Things happen and the only thing you can do to accept the reality is to cleanse your heart and believe that Allah s.w.t made something happen for a reason. Don't let our negative emotions overpower us till it separates us and our iman even more. As much as we feel that it is against our dreams and expectations in our head, we have to realise that the One writing our whole life is the All-Knowing and let's just be humble at every situation. Be true to ourselves and be positive with the intentions of the All-Loving.

I pray that we will all get over things easily especially those that have the power to corrupt our hearts and faith. And a note to myself that whatever happens now, there is a reason and I would never ever know why it happens until He wants me to understand why it happens. For now, stay positive. ♥

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