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Manipulators are temporary

  • Jul 29, 2018
  • 3 min read

" People who are intimidated by you, talk bad about you with hopes that others wont find you so appealing."

Recently, S introduced me to a YouTube channel called "The Bucket List Family". They are a family that sold EVERYTHING and travelled the world. They are really really really WHAT YOU CALL GOALS!!


While watching their videos, I got reminded of this hadith narrated by Sayidina Abdullah ibn Umar said that Rasulullah s.a.w. said, "Be in the world as if you were a stranger or a traveller." It was my favourite quote then.


Why? After watching The Bucket List Family, I realise that they were so happy and the reasons of why they could do that other than it was just everyone's GOALS to-do-list but they also... 1) Left everything behind to explore new things 2) Were not too attached to a particular place/country they visited 3) Live life to the minimalist 4) Living every moment as if it is their last 5) Just, do it! They also made me realise that LIFE itself is a beautiful journey and AT THE SAME TIME, something that we should not be so attached to. In faith terms, it just means, life is temporary! And how beautiful and calming it is to just live your life without thinking and worrying about all the hate and all the things other people have to say FOR YOU. People who are out there trying to define who you are... People who are out there trying to make you the person you are not... People talking about untrue things about you to everyone (even those close to you)... People who manipulate others into thinking about what you aren't...



These manipulators will keep on trying to talk bad about you to everyone, EVEN THOUGH you tried to put yourself away from them, even when both of you are not even close anymore, even when you kept quiet at all the manipulations they put into people's head especially those who are close to you. And when they are questioned, they will continue to manipulate and just continue to say untrue things covering their actions over and over again. But the only people who will believe them is those who are NOT TRULY CLOSE to them. So, be careful people. Those who have been living 24/7 with them, have seen their true colours in and out, will get annoyed and frustrated at their constant negative vibes. And the reason why these people are still doing it because they act like nothing happen in front of that person they just talked about. AND I AM VERY SICK AND TIRED OF THAT HYPOCRISY.


But I will always pray, that the next time I would see this person eye-to-eye, her heart would be full of regrets and she would have a great explanation of why she did such. If the person is not filled with remorse then I will keep praying that they will be protected by people like their own character (because like attract like). I also pray that every one of us is protected from such evil situations like these.


And to end this post with some POSITIVE VIBES, if you are EVER in this position, just DO NOT CARE, get your feet going and continue your very short journey to be a successful person in this world. ♥

thepinkrosette

 
 
 

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