Personality

"Personality begins when comparison ends"

Today's post will be very very short because I'm really so so tired from what's going on in my life. Nothing so heavy but just so many things to do!! So recently, there was one topic that was very often brought up and talked about amongst my friends and I. It was about our past and how we were like in primary and secondary school. I realise that we all had different personalities at different phases of our lives. In primary school, I was a very stern person. I follow things by books and there is no flexibility in anything. In secondary school, I got quieter as things around me were changing. Thus, affecting how I reacted to things. I got more observant and I kept whatever that was in my mind as I practiced patience. I also was a listener. I make sure I understood everyone. In tertiary, I got back my spirit to be more vocal to voice out myself and to make sure people understood me. I also appreciated my "me time" because I guess that was how I am. I became more flexible as I learnt how to understand to interpret different situations and people. Recently, I took my personality test AGAIN to make sure I was the right personality that I got a few years ago which was INFJ and I really got it AGAIN after the second time trying the personality test.

So I decided to read what exactly is this INFJ personality and point out the MOST accurate points that are so relatable. 1) People capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact. I think I always had this attitude of knowing what I want and really chasing for what I want. Btw, this is to address on BIGGER goals. Not including things like what to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner. HAHAHA And as you can see from my goals this 2018, yes, making a positive impact is so important to me. 2) Though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in

THIS WAS SO SO TRUE. IT GAVE ME GOOSEBUMPS. The fact that I am so soft-spoken but my mind is so loud that I want people to know exactly what I am thinking because I believe that whatever I am thinking is actually beneficial in a way or another.

3) They tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants I can never agree more because I feel that no matter how bad or evil someone is, in them, there will always be that small tiny brightness and love in their hearts SOMEWHERE. It is just how we approach people that matters.

4) Advocates take great care of other’s feelings, and they expect the favor to be returned – sometimes that means giving them the space they need for a few days

I feel that this is so important to me because I feel so annoyed and unfair when someone does not even try to understand me when I am clearly TRYING MY VERY BEST understanding them. Understand me in a way that I need some time and space alone when I really need it because as an introvert, I really appreciate my alone time to recharge and get my energy back to continue doing what I love.

5) Advocates just need to remember that while they’re busy taking care of the world, they need to take care of themselves, too And this is a NOTE TO MYSELF. Sometimes I find myself overwhelmed with others that I don't really take care of myself. Thus, my addition goal in life would also be about loving and pampering myself even more. When you learn how to love yourself, you tend to automatically love others and others would love you too.

I would very much share details about my personality more in the future. For now, I hope everyone would try to take the test and learn more about themselves because it helps me to know myself even more and now I know how to help myself if I am facing problems. One thing is that, you know you are never alone in this world with this weird personality. ♥

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