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Fertilizers for Motivation

Never let people define who you are. Or tell you what you should be doing or your goals in life. You are you. You create your own dreams and chase them because dreams can be a reality. 

 

Comparing is a disease of the mind. Don't compare yourself to anyone. Just carry on at your own pace

You don't need attention and compliments to feel good about yourself. Being confident can make you happier. Happiness starts with you. 

Only focus on your goals. Don't be distracted by others. The only way to succeed is to focus on yourself and what is best for you.

Be kind. Be nice. Think good of others.

It makes a difference,

a good one.

With respect and love,

  • Jan 5, 2018
  • 2 min read

" Stay focus on your goals. Don't waste your time on anything that does not contribute to your goals."

So recently I went on twitter and there is this uproar about a married couple (not important to as to who I am talking about) and those comments on how the husband have been ill-treating his wife. Okay, so being me, I went to stalk these couple on Instagram to see what is the big deal about these two lovebirds. So I went to see. Honestly, all I saw was a very lovely couple. They look very sweet and happy together. Even the caption that was posted by the husband wasn't as bad as

(at least that's what I feel) to whatever people were commenting on Twitter.


Then I started to feel all the negative vibes all over again. And all the hate comments that people were throwing at the couple especially the husband. People are telling the husband that his wife deserves to be treated better. Mocking the husband, saying he should be a better husband. Saying things as if they were part of the marriage or their family.


I feel like it has to stop. It is already 2018 and people are still wasting time on twitter commenting hatred towards another. Sometimes we want to comment for the sake of it, however, have we ever thought what lies behind the scene? What lies behind the social media account and all the captions? What lies in their marriage? What the couple goes through every day? No.


Even so, if the couple are not having it well, who are we to judge, oh "he is a bad husband" or "she is a bad wife", "he/she deserves to be treated better". Instead of feeding onto the negativity, I think all of us have an important role to play in just keeping quiet and praying the best for them. It is really easy to comment on others and find the flaws in others. But the real question is, what is our purpose in doing so? Also, don't we have a BIGGER goal in our life? Which is to improve ourselves.


Now, I learn that every single time we feel like commenting on something especially something bad about the person, best is to say something nice. If there is nothing nice to say, just keep quiet. And the best thing to do is just move on and concentrate on your own life. If there is a need to advice, do it personally and nicely.


I pray that the community could be a much better place with peace and treat each other in the most respectful manner (in the real world and in social media). ♥


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